The Van Der Buellas are back!

So a good friend of ours gave us our nickname- the Van Der Buellas- back in the day before we had kids. Oh, the days before kids are a distant memory! Anyhow, we enjoy traveling, but I personally didn’t do much traveling until I was in my mid 20’s, which was over 10 years ago! We’ve enjoyed some adventures with the kiddos, but this was our first time using our passports since we had kiddos- woohoo!

This past year, 2016, marked 10 years of wedded bliss! Ha! For anyone who is married with kids, or anyone really… 10 years is a damn long time, isn’t it? And bliss is hardly the word to describe it. It’s messy. But we’re here and together! So we needed to celebrate, because this was huge (for us.)

Anyhow, we had a hard time deciding where to go. We initially wanted to do something alone, by ourselves- i.e. Europe. Flights were/are expensive and to make it worth spending that money, I’d want to stay somewhat long- at least 10 days. Well, that wasn’t happening. We don’t really have anyone to watch the kids for that long, so we nixed that idea. I came across flights for the Philippines back in March 2016 and snagged some relatively cheap tickets for Christmas in the Philippines!

Why the Philippines? SO many reasons!
1) My first time! Never been to Asia actually. I’ve never felt the connection to go to the Philippines. All of my immediate family and cousins, etc. are here. My parents never went back after they arrived in the U.S. So why not?
2) Christmas in the Philippines is supposed to be really special, and with the kids being off from school, we figured it was a great time to go.
3) The dollar is STRONG! We got to see a lot and do a lot, and were able to stay within our budget.
4) Family

So what were our highlights? Hmmmm.. SO MANY!
1) Our time together alone venturing throughout El Nido and Bohol was priceless. Swimming, kayaking, hiking, etc. Bohol was extra special and all I remember is Adelina hugging random Filipinos (i.e., our waiters/waitresses, people who worked at the transportation terminal, concierge) probably because she thought they were family! It was awesome being in a country where everyone looks like us! We had a dinner where we took a boat to a private island, to celebrate (our anniversary, my parents birthdays). Having this amazing dinner while the kids were playing on the beach was priceless!
2) The people and hospitality. I made strong connections with people there (employees at the resort) and family I had never met.
3) Seeing where my parents came from. I got to see where my dad grew up. Seeing the poverty there truly helped me put my life into perspective. Just thinking about their journey, where I am, and where my kids are in life- I’m so grateful!
4) Spending time with my family in Talisay, Cebu. I never met my family there and didn’t know what to expect. I wasn’t adopted, but I imagine it being like meeting your birth parents. Not sure if there will be a connection, whether you’ll feel welcome and not knowing what to expect. Well I’m so glad we met my family there. They were EXTREMELY hospitable to us. And showed us where my Dad and his siblings grew up. I also learned so much history being there. My great grandfather was a mayor there in the 1940’s, and the house where my dad grew up, the Garces Ancestral Home, is an historical landmark in Talisay. To see my family name on a billboard that advertises Talisay, and see a street named after my great grandfather was unforgettable. And the time that I got to spend with them was priceless. I also got to meet my 94 year old grand aunt. It was so special. I hope to go back within the next couple of years and spend more time with them.
5) Spending time with Cisco’s family. I really didn’t know what to expect, but everyone’s warmth and hospitality is something I’ve never experienced and will never forget. I really got to connect with all his cousins and their kids, and get an understanding of how Filipinos live. S L O W paced- i.e. lots of traffic and super slow internet! LOL first world problems, really.
6) Visiting a school and spending time with the nuns that run the school. Cisco’s family is so giving and have helped a group of nuns run a school that started in a garage.

I posted a few pics here from our trip, but here is a link that has a bit more. Not all 2000+ that we took, but more like 60! 😉

https://goo.gl/photos/uq8EZcXTUuEZ6tpt7

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12 Week Year

For the most part, people see January as a time for “new beginnings.” I’m not great at this, but I try to reflect and grow on a somewhat regular basis. I’ve been reading this book, 12 Week Year, introduced to me by a good friend who also happens to be an ambitious mom. As much as I want to do and have accomplished, I always want to do more. Not that I’m not happy. I easily get inspired and it’s just my nature. I then get overwhelmed, feeling that I’ve reached my capacity. Which isn’t possible. I haven’t reached my capacity. I set my own limits and make choices about how my time is spent. Planning, executing, living with intention, getting uncomfortable and being around people that inspire me will always push me beyond the “capacity” I’ve created for myself.

The premise with the 12 Week Year is that when we set our goals at the beginning of the year, the end of the year is quite distant and we tend to be laxed in accomplishing our goals the majority of the year. Then when November/December hit, we have an “oh sh**” moment and haul ass! The idea behind the 12 Week Year is that we shift our minds so that we plan our time and regularly measure our activities so that we accomplish what we want at the end of 12 weeks.

The main takeaways for me that I’ve done and wanted to share:
– Wrote down my long term vision and set short term goals for the next 12 weeks that align with that.
– Wrote down the tactics and frequency in which I need to implement those tactics in order to achieve my goals
– Organized a WAM Weekly Accountability Meeting. Being a part of a group of people that want you to succeed and vice versa.
– Blocked/planned out my time for the next 3 months to ensure the tactics related to my goals are accomplished regularly.

There are also templates available to help get your plan on paper. I highly recommend it.
Pick it up, share your key takeaways and your successes! Can’t wait to hear what 2017 has in store for us!

#12weekyear #knowledgeispower #personaldevelopment #pd #grow #mindset #choices

She heard you whisper “I love you”

This past weekend was such a special weekend.  We planned an impromptu overnight trip in NY since we haven’t been in a long time and to also visit Auntie.  Yesterday, I won 2 lotteries, 1 for the Lion King and 1 for Wicked.  I was so emotional when the Lion King started, being in that moment with Adelina and feeling how excited she was, and all the things that God put into place (the timing of the lotteries, me finding a parking spot to make it to the live lottery in time) was something really special.

Today, we visited my Mom at the cemetery.  Her death anniversary passed last Thursday and it has been a while since we all visited.  This time though, Giselle was being extra sweet. Hugging the tombstone, kissing it, saying “I miss you so much. I wish I could see you. I love you and I’ll see you soon.”  She does that normally, but today, she was extra affectionate.

As we were leaving Auntie Joy, Giselle insisted on visiting my Mom one last time.  She ran over, gave a hug and kiss one last time, and said “I love you and I miss you.”  Afterwards, I hugged her and said, “thank you Giselle. That was really sweet. You made me so happy.” Giselle said, “Mommy! I think I heard your mommy say “I love you!” and so I said, “I love you too!” while I was hugging you.” From there, I was crying, because I know in my heart that she can’t make that stuff up.  I knew that my Mom really was with Giselle and is talking with her and with me.

Giselle always talks about my Mom, Lolo Jun and my Dad. She always mentions how they’re having meals with us and she isn’t just saying it either. You could tell in her eyes, that she really feels their presence and I’m so thankful that they are always guiding her and protecting, and talking to me through her.Visiting Mommy

“I’m waiting to finish up some work on the house before I get it listed with an agent.”

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This is a common response I get from homeowners who really want to sell, but for some reason think that in order to get your house listed with an agent, it needs to be repaired.

Being someone that has bought and sold houses that needed everything, I think that it isn’t worth it to put the time and money in repairs to possibly get incrementally more money. If you’re selling your grandma’s house that hasn’t been updated in decades:

a) Clear the clutter. Get the house cleaned, make the house look its best WITHOUT the repairs, allowing the buyer to see the house for what it is.

b) Get good comps of move-in ready houses that sold in the area, on a similar block, in a similar area, and same school district.

c) Can you expect someone to buy your house and live in it in the condition that it’s in?  If it needs new electric, has super outdated bathrooms and an unusable kitchen, you can’t expect a homeowner to live there- unless they are willing to do the work.  You are likely looking at an investor who will buy it and fix it.  If that’s the case, you not only have to consider the amount of work that it will take to fix your house, but also the costs that the investor will take on, to do the work AND CLEAR A PROFIT. Whether or homeowner or investor buys the house, you need to consider the time/expense they are taking on by buying something that isn’t move in ready.

For example, if brand new rehabbed homes in your area sell for $350,000 and your house needs everything, let’s just say that costs $125k to fix, just for repairs.  You can’t expect anyone to pay $225k for your house just because that’s what a repair estimate is.   You’ll need to consider what will make your property worth while for the buyer.  The homeowner will pay more, because they don’t have to factor in a profit to sell the house like an investor would.  But you still need to consider the costs that either the homeowner or investor would take on.

Lastly, many times I have people come to me with an appraisal, set on thinking that is what they can sell their house for.  Just like there are good real estate agents and bad ones, there are good real estate appraisers and bad ones as well.  I’ve seen appraisals where the subject property was in completely different condition than a property that was included in an appraisal.  I’ve also seen appraisals where the house that was included in the appraisal was something that sold over 6 months ago.  Don’t let an appraisal be the end-all be all deciding factor of what your house should be listed at.  If the area where your house is listed in doesn’t have properties that recently sold (within 3 months, no more than 6 months), then consider what is currently listed for the same price range and go from there.

Do you or someone you know have some hesitations on listing their house because of its condition?  Don’t.  As long as the house is priced right, it should sell.  As someone who has bought and sold houses for both myself and for my clients that needed tons of work, I have a good understanding of what buyers will pay for a place- both homeowners and investors. Before putting in the time and money to make those repairs, reach out to me.  It may be worth it to put a fraction of the time and money to get your house listed and sold!

My house is worth what??!!

If you are looking to sell your house- whether you’re an investor that just put in tons of money and rehabbed a house or someone looking to sell your owner occupied property, please don’t be fooled by numbers on Zillow, or agents who are just looking to get your house listed at whatever price sounds good to you so that you’ll list it with them.

a) Zillow’s information is based on public record and takes an average of houses that sold within a given area, not considering the condition.  A house that has similar square footage, that was just rehabbed and has a finished basement does not compare to a house that has been lived in for 10+ years.  Additionally, location drives the price of a house and we all know that many times values of homes vary from block to block.   A house on a wide tree lined street with parking on both sides, does not compare to a house on a narrow one way street with parking on 1 side.  Think about this. If you were a buyer, would you pay the same price for a house that needs work and on a not so appealing block vs. a house that didn’t need work, was move-in ready and on a street that was easy to find parking? No. So don’t expect to list your house for the same price as a rehabbed house and get it sold.

b)  Yes, there are agents who will tell you that they can sell your house for the price you want to sell it for, with no rhyme or reason for pricing, just to get your listing!  Why?  Because the MLS is a great way to market your property while also marketing for their own business.  Not saying that agents who have lots of listings are only doing it so they can market their own business.  Just saying that there are agents who will say that they can sell your house for the price that you want, without truly understanding how to get the pricing of your house right so that it will sell quickly.

As someone who is selling your house on your behalf, it is an agent’s job to get your house sold quickly and for the best price.  Additionally, not all agents that have had listings that sat on the market before they sold, are bad agents.  There are varying factors that effect the time in which a house can sell.  One of them being its ability to be shown.  If a house is priced right, it will sit longer than expected if it isn’t easily shown or if it doesn’t show well.

There are a multitude of factors that dictate what will make a house sell, so the key is to understand the buyers in your market and what they are looking for. If you’re in a city, looking at homes within .1-.25 mile should give you a good base.

  • when meeting with your agent- (hopefully that’s me!) they should provide this to you- active, settled and pending. If not, ask for it.
  • take a look at how long it took those houses to sell
  • check out the block in which those houses are located
  • consider how your house is different and how much more/less you would pay. Be realistic.  Would you pay $20,000 more for a house that had an extra 1/2 bath?  Probably not.  How about for a garage? Depends where.  Again, be realistic and look at the sale of your home from the buyer’s perspective, comparing your house to what has sold and what’s on the market.

If you’re in the Philadelphia or Main Line area and are looking to sell in the near future, let’s connect. I’d be happy to share info with you that will get your house sold quickly!

 

 

Camping Spots, 2-3 hours away from Philadelphia

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Creek at Bushkill Falls

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Lake at Promised Land State Park

So we just came back from our THIRD camping trip this past weekend. We went to Promised Land State park and loved it!  It was my first time going camping at a State Park vs. a privately owned facility and I definitely prefer it. Everything at the campground was well maintained and the bathrooms were spotless.  We stayed at the Lower Lake campground which has walking access to a fishing lake, which was really nice.  You have to drive to the swimming lake, which is about a 10 minute drive.  The lake, park, playground and surrounding areas are really well kept.  There is also a Conservatory Island, which (I believe) is a little over a mile.  It was a nice, shady, hiking option before dinner, when the campsite got too hot.

The campsites at Pickeral Point are along the water, walking distance to an unguarded swimming area.

And my favorite thing about this campground? IT’S SO CHEAP!  I looked into some other campgrounds that offered more activities, and it costs double.  Without electric, the campsites are $23/night. With electric, they are $31/night. Most privately owned campgrounds start around $45-$50 and is based only on DOUBLE OCCUPANCY. So if you have 2 or 3 kids @ $5/head, it comes out to around $60-$70/night.

So yes, we really enjoyed this place and will definitely be checking out other Pennsylvania State Parks, hopefully before camping season ends.  Camping season for Promised Land is between Memorial Day and Labor Day, not sure if that’s the case for all Pennsylvania State Parks.

Few things:
– bring bikes or scooters.  The road is smooth and paved, the kids loved getting on their scooters as soon as they woke up in the morning
– bring a lantern
– the firepit at some of the campsites are pretty cramped. Before booking next time, I plan to find out whether there’s any way to make sure I don’t get a campsite that feels cramped around the firepit. i.e. ground around the firepit is uneven to put chairs OR the firepit is tucked away near a bunch of trees- not an open space.
–  make sure to check whether the site you reserve is shaded

Some other parks I considered:

State Parks:
Locust Lake
French Creek

I wanted to go to a park that had access to a lake, since it was 90 degrees while we were there.

Private:
Otter Lake
Ringing Rocks

I used the website http://www.pacamping.com to help filter through the crazy list of campsites nearby.  PA camping has a nice website with an interactive map, to help you easily navigate the best campground within the area you are looking for.  This site has public and private campgrounds.

This site is for Pennsylvania State Parks, and you can make camping reservations here:  http://www.dcnr.state.pa.us/stateparks/staythenight/camping/

 

 

JUST gained possession of a property purchased in 2014… YAY!

So this is a story that needs to be documented as quite possibly the deal from hell. It will probably be quite a long post, but here it is.

Back in 2013, I was referred to someone who wanted to sell her deceased father’s property, she was the Executrix.  The seller claimed that her stepmom may be residing in the property, but she was unsure whether or not she was actually there because she claimed that her stepmom was on drugs.  I did some due diligence to see if there was someone in the property.  I drove by at night, checked on trash day to see if the trash was put out and sent a letter asking to be contacted. Long story short, I purchased a possibly occupied property in an area that I knew was turning around in March 2014.  I obviously would not have taken this risk if the price wasn’t right. I took a leap of faith and trusted my gut that this was something worth pursuing and… did a lot of praying. I found an investor who trusted my intuition on the deal and backed me up by funding the purchase.  I did my due diligence to ensure that if there was someone in the property and they did fight me on gaining possession, that my chances of gaining possession may take long, but were in my favor.

Well… when I purchased the property, my investor and I didn’t think that it would take this long to have the property. And technically, I still don’t.  I need to wait until the occupant is actually out of the property, which could take another 90 days. BUT after 2 years of being in court with someone who swore she had rights to the property even though she made no effort to file a claim against the estate, did not file a will stating that she had rights to the property… basically did nothing for 6 years AND stole electricity from her next door neighbor, we won.  I got to the point where I almost gave up and was going to cut my losses just so I could move on.  I prayed a lot because it was really wearing me down and decided that whatever the outcome was, good or bad, that there was a lesson to be learned and that I would be fine with whatever God had planned for me.  There was so much that I could control and what I couldn’t, I left in His hands.  I’m so thankful and humbled because it took a lot of work, patience and trust. It was quite the roller coaster of emotions which I’ll detail in another post, but l’m so thankful we can finally move on from this!

First deal as an agent in the books!

It only took 6 months (I’m being sarcastic!) but I closed my first deal as an agent.  I received the referral from a good friend of mine. I was hesitant to take on the listing because the 2 properties next door were boarded up and vacant.  Just a few tips for anyone looking to rehab:

  •  If you’re working on your first rehab, don’t be a pioneer in an iffy neighborhood.  Ideally, if you’re going to be the first rehab to hopefully turn around a neighborhood,  make sure there are similar sold properties in the IMMEDIATE neighborhood first.  The definition of immediate neighborhood can vary from place to place.  It’s up to you to understand where neighborhoods cut off to ensure you have the right comparables in order to price your property correctly, right out the gate.
  • For something you plan to flip in the short term, don’t buy next to a vacant property OR if you plan to buy next to a vacant property, lower your anticipated sales price to entice your buyer.  If there are 2 completely renovated properties on the market priced exactly the same and one is next to a vacant boarded up property, would you make an offer on the one next to a vacant house? Probably not. BUT if that same house was $20,000 cheaper, do you think you would consider taking that risk for $20,000 less?  Maybe, maybe not.  But at least now you are making your property stand out by being priced lower.
  • Rehab your property with the end buyer in mind.  High end finishes can sometimes be a waste of money, when it isn’t necessary for a particular market.  Again, this is about understanding what has sold in your immediate market.  If other properties are/are not doing things to their rehabs, keep the money in your pocket and deliver a product that is similar to what’s available, but stands out as well.

Happy rehabbing!

Easter 2016 at the Buella’s!

Our family cleaned up nicely, even though Adelina insisted on rockin’ her snow boots!  This is us in front of our new place. We hosted our first “big” party, Easter lunch. I made dirt pudding cups, raspberry thumbprint cookies, a Filipino dish (Kare Kare) and roasted prime rib. I’ll post pics of the spread! Fun times 🙂

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Dessert!

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Amish Camping

Amish Camping
I wanted to go camping this year. My dad took us camping when I was younger and I loved it. I love being outdoors, however, I haven’t camped since I was a little kid. I have so many reasons why I want to start camping, but the main one is to do something fun with the kids that isn’t expensive. It’s something that, if we get good at it, that I’m hoping we can do a couple of times, a year, maybe all over the country.

Since we hadn’t gone camping as a family, I wanted to do a trial run at a family-friendly resort, hopefully within a 2-3 hour drive. Here are some campgrounds that I came across:

Rickett’s Glenn area
Whispering Pines Camping Estates
Red Rock Mountain Campground
Pioneer Campground

Near Philly
Colonial Woods Family Camping Resort
Little Red Barn Campground
Seven Tubs Nature Area
Ringing Rocks Family Campground

Lancaster, PA (near Hershey, PA)
Lake In Wood
Country Acres Campground

Others
Niagara Falls
Lake George, NY
Montauk, NY
Peaceful Woodlands family campground
Otter Lake Camp Resort
Penn’s Cave and Wildlife Park
Ocean View Resort – Ocean City, NJ
Frontier Town and Castaways – Ocean City, MD

We decided to go to Country Acres Campground. This was a nice compromise because my husband was not too keen on the idea of going camping. In retrospect, thinking that we would do a 2-3 hour drive with 2 kids for 2 nights of camping and hiking was too much. Country Acres was a little over an hour away and in the middle of beautiful Amish Country. Living here in Philly and having access to amazing Amish goodies at Reading Terminal, I take for granted living an hour outside of Amish country.

Being in the middle of Amish Country, we didn’t have to worry about bringing too many food items, utensils, pots, pans, etc. We also ended up doing things that would be less tiring for us that the kids would enjoy: Chocolate World, Hershey Gardens and Turkey Hill Experience. My 4 year old whines when she’s tired. We tried to do Mariposa Grove in Yosemite in May and barely made it past the beginning of the trail. I don’t know why I thought we could do Rickett’s Glen, it would not have been an enjoyable trip for anyone. I have to train a little harder to get my 4 year old to walk longer. I give in to putting her into the stroller too easily since it makes things faster for me.

Here’s what we ate:

Friday: Smorgasbord
Saturday breakfast: Amish goodies picked up the night before
Saturday lunch: Picnic lunch/sandwiches/fruit at Hershey Gardens
Saturday dinner: Hot Dogs on the fire pit
Sunday breakfast: Waffle House

All in all, great trip, short and sweet. It gave us a taste of what we like and don’t like about camping and the length of time that we did it was perfect too. We’d love to do a trip like this with friends, but we’ve found it hard to find families we are close to, who are down to do something like this. Camping isn’t a thing that minorities in my network do! It sounds silly, but anytime I become friends with a caucasian person, I wonder if they have potential to go camping with me and my fam!

 

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